A ‘DOWNTON ABBEY’ CHARACTER GUIDE: INTRODUCING THE CRAWLEY FAMILY

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Established in 2010, if you’re a fan of the epic period drama Downton Abbey, well, you probably know the “who’s who” among the Crawley family who inhabit the hallowed estate halls. From the moment the theme song begins, we know that inhabiting Downton Abbey is something we’re ready to love. As we are about two and a half weeks out from the final goodbye to this family, in the third film Downton Abbey: The Grand Finale, today let’s meet the Crawley family in this Downton Abbey character guide, just in case you need a crash course. 

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Those of us who obsess over this probably don’t need a guide. However, if you’re going to see ‘The Grand Finale’ without watching the six season TV show, which made its U.S. debut on Masterpiece PBS, or the first two feature films (from 2019 and 2022), well maybe this Downton Abbey character guide will be helpful. We probably won’t be able to fit everyone in because there is a lot, but I’ll try to be relatively thorough. So, let us introduce you to the Crawley family. 

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MEET the DOWNTON ABBEY CRAWLEY FAMILY aka a CHARACTER GUIDE

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LORD ROBERT GRANTHAM, EARL of GRANTHAM and LADY CORA GRANTHAM, COUNTESS of GRANTHAM

Appearances: All 52 episodes of the TV show, and three films

Head of the family, Robert and Cora have been happily married for many years. They’ve gone through ups and downs and struggles. They’ve lost children, seen their daughters lose loves of their lives, survived a war and now, in ‘The Grand Finale,’ they face losing the part of their legacy that is Downton Abbey. 

Robert is the gruffer and more “stiff upper lip” British Lord while Cora plays a softer foil to her husband. She suffers, at least in the eyes of her mother-in-law, the unfortunate burden of being American which isn’t what his mother wanted for Robert. Despite the marriage being one of convieance in which Cora brought a large wealth to the match, her gentleness is a nice contrast to Robert’s often tougher love approach. The two created a strong marriage in spite of the “business” side of their marriage.

LADY MARY TALBOT nee CRAWLEY

Appearances: All 52 episodes of the TV show, and three films

Eldest daughter of Robert and Cora, Mary is, well, ruthless. She isn’t afraid to say what’s on her mind which she puts, how shall we say, bluntly. She does this all without a filter, even displaying her cruel and seemingly cold nature towards her own sisters (and publicly sometimes!). Eventually she does let down her guard, and falls in love with Matthew, a distant cousin who becomes the family’s only living heir, and after a turbulent journey, they marry and have a son. Matthew tragically dies and Mary remarries a dreamer named Henry Talbot with whom she has a second child. 

Though not generally permitted to do so in the 1930s, Mary’s ruthless nature makes her ideal to someday inherit and take over running Downton Abbey. She gradually does while raising the son who will someday inherit the family fortune and estate. Time, loss, maturity and motherhood has made Mary softer, and her arc has perhaps been the one with most change. 

LADY EDITH HEXHAM nee CRAWLEY

Appearances: All 52 episodes of the TV show, and three films

Edith is the middle child of the Crawley family and though she perhaps seems like the “forgotten” wallflower in the family, the girl has opinions and grows a backbone. Perhaps in part because of having to stand up for herself against her sister, Mary. 

Edith has had many disappointments and great heartbreak from being jilted at the alter to having a child out of wedlock that she had to part with. In the final season of the TV show, she truly comes into her own, making decisions that may disgrace her, and possibly risk her chance at happiness… 

LORD BERTIE HEXHAM

Appearances: 7 episodes of the TV show (primarily in the final season), and three films

Kind and generous, Bertie enters the scene late in the series but he and Edith manage to bond and share a sweet connection. They meet while the Crawley family is on holiday and in time, and once her story is shared, they do marry and through two feature films, we’ve seen Edith find the happy ending that was always beyond her grasp with the easy-going Bertie, a man who seems quite well suited to the middle Crawley daughter. 

TOM BRANSON

Appearances: 45 episodes of the TV show, and three films

Ah, Tom! Here’s a character I am personally quite fond of, and next to Mary, is perhaps another who’s had a solid character arc. He began at Downton as a rebel chauffeur who, much to the displeasure of Robert, caught the eye of youngest daughter, Sybil. The pair marry eventually and after giving birth to their daughter, Tom is left a young widower with a newborn daughter. 

I’ve loved seeing the evolution of this character. He’s gone from a nuisance (in the eyes of Robert) to being Mary’s confidante (and champion) and eventually, a man Robert can respect. The pair don’t get on well because of their differing views on the wealthy vs working class, but Tom stands by this family he inherits in the aftermath of his wife’s death and through his choice, mutual respect and love blossoms. In the 2022 feature, he remarries a woman named Lucy.

ISOBEL CRAWLEY

Appearances: 52 episodes of the TV show, and three films

The mother of Matthew Crawley, Isobel remains close in the aftermath of her son’s death and is a kind of sparring partner for Violet, the family matriarch. Still despite the ups and downs Isobel has in trying to be a part of the Crawley family, eventually they all come to an understanding and through the years, she is helpful and a comfort to more than one of her relatives while she and Mary eventually have a deeper understanding sharing the deep loss of Matthew.

HAROLD LEVISON

Appearances: 1 episode of the TV show, and one film

Harold isn’t a character we see often but he did appear in the show for an episode and Paul Giametti plays him! He’s Cora’s brother and as this story chapter of Julian Fellowes career comes to a close, he returns to Downton Abbey to visit his sister and nieces.

the CHILDREN

While they don’t play a big role in the TV series or films, the children of Downton Abbey also do have a part. This includes eldest grandchild Sybil aka Sybbie Branson, the daughter of youngest Crawley daughter Sybil and husband Tom. Next is the son of Mary and Matthew, George and then Mary’s daughter Caroline with Henry Talbot. Then there is Marigold, the illegitimate (gasp!) daughter of Edith whom she and husband Bertie are raising.

MR. CARSON and MRS. HUGHES

Appearances: All 52 episodes of the TV show, and three films

Butler and housekeeper, these two share a lot in common including their work ethic and their ability to keep a clear head while running an organized and smooth home. They share a gentle romance that eventually leads to marriage, and when the time comes, Mrs. Hughes is the one who helps Carson come to terms with the reality that the life he’s known for generations is coming to a close.

Their story is a lovely one and I enjoy their scenes so much. Carson is as protective, if not more, of Downton Abbey as well as its inhabitants, and the man has a soft spot for Lady Mary even through her faux pas’ are often as a result of deliberate choices. Mrs. Hughes is a wise woman who leads with firmness but if needed, kindness. They are both fabulous characters impossible not to like.

MR. BATES

Appearances: All 52 episodes of the TV show, and three films

Bates is a downstairs character who arrives to the estate in episode one as a man seeking employment as Robert’s valet. Suffering deep wounds (literal and physical) from WWI, Bates finds himself healing through obtaining honest work (even if he does have to prove that he can do this) and through the gentle smile and kind friendship of Anna, the maid who cares for Lady Mary.

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ANNA

Appearances: All 52 episodes of the TV show, and three films

Anna is a kind and hard-working maid who knows and does her job very well. She even forms, through the years, an understanding friendship with Lady Mary. The pair share a good deal of things and Anna suffers a terrible fate that viewers found devastating. It’s particularly troubling to see this happen to a character who is so likable and good. In time, Anna heals and though they still have a troublesome and difficult road, Anna too grows close to Bates, eventually becoming Mrs. Bates. 

DAISY MASON

Appearances: All 52 episodes of the TV show, and three films

Charming and delightfully naive, Daisy is a wonderfully wholesome character. She has a bit of sass too and we love her for it. Early on, she forms a crush on a fellow staff member whom she eventually learns isn’t, well, into her. She has a short-lived marriage (he dies) and remains close with her father-in-law while frustrating (more so in her early experiences) the cook as much as she brings joy. 

MRS. PATMORE 

Appearances: All 52 episodes of the TV show, and three films

Quite brusk, Mrs. Patmore is still wonderful. We love her no-nonsense character so very much and respect how she comes to care for Daisy (as a daughter, which we hear in the trailer for ‘The Grand Finale’) and we admire her hard-working nature and ability to run her kitchen with efficiency. 

THOMAS BARROW

Appearances: All 52 episodes of the TV show, and three films

Thomas is one of those anti-hero characters that I suspect some fans really like. I’ve never loved his character because he seems more invested in himself than he does loyalty or caring about his coworkers (many of whom treat him with respect). He has a past, which we learn includes him being afraid to serve as a soldier. I cannot remember every aspect of Thomas’ story but do suspect he has had some growth throughout his long-standing appearance on this show. 

MORE characters

There will be new characters in ‘The Grand Finale,’ but we don’t know the who of who they’ll be playing just yet. Well, apart from the trailer (yes, I had to watch this trailer since it appeared before Freakier Friday) giving a little wink, wink that Alessandro Nivola aka Henry Crawford in Mansfield Park may be a little dalliance for Lady Mary.

Yes, there are lots of other characters, too. Both upstairs and down. There is also the long-suffering Joseph Molesley (a role Kevin Doyle holds for 46 of 52 episodes and all three films) a downstairs servant who never seems to catch a break; Michael Fox plays Andy Parker, a footman who eventually is hired full time at Downton who has a romantic connection with Daisy (he appears in all three films and a select number of TV episodes); appearing in 21 episodes (none of the films), Lily James played spunky cousin Rose; and Lord Merton (Douglas Reith) is in 16 of the original TV episodes and then appears in all three films. Through the years, the family has even hosted members of royalty!

Of course, there is also Violet Crawley, the Dowager Countess and matriarch. She is mother to Robert and often nemesis (in a still oddly loving way) to American daughter-in-law Cora and Isobel. In the last film, ‘A New Era,’ we learned that she was ill and since then her portrayer Maggie Smith passed away. As a result, this character too has passed away, but she’ll forever live on as the sassy woman who wonders what is a week-end?

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Downton Abbey: The Grand Finale is opening in theaters Friday September 12, 2025. Find, at publication, the 2019 feature film on Netflix and 2022 feature film streaming on Peacock or purchase digitally on places like Prime Video. Stream seasons one – six of the show on BritBox, Peacock or Prime Video

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